Lift for Life Model of the Month, Josephine Dalton
People are a lot like jigsaw
puzzles, some more complex than others but each the collective sum of
their parts. If you look at Lift for Life Model of the Month Josephine
Dalton on the surface only, you will miss all the complexity that lies
within.
Natural beauty is in and of
itself a gift, but it is also a burden that carries with it the weight
of assumptions that society places on attractive women. When an average
woman and an attractive woman achieve similar degrees of success, the
more attractive of the two will often be accused of having "slept her
way there". Regardless of her ability, effort and dedication, the
assumption will be that her looks gave her the advantage.
But beauty is also a thing to
be cultivated and even natural beauty can use a little help. As such,
Josephine began weight training in 1987 and quickly became addicted to
the way her body responded. She learned that she could not only change
her physique, but her life as well. Josephine joined the US Navy in 1992
serving until 1997 after which she attended Iowa State University for
Pre-medicine and Exercise Science. In 2003 she became a personal trainer
and has been competing since 2005.
Life is not without difficulty
and perhaps it is not only how we cope with challenges that define who
we are, but how we overcome them. Josephine experienced a period of
prolonged depression beginning in the summer of 2001 which ultimately
led to an attempted suicide while under the influence of prescription
medication and alcohol. Grateful to have survived, Josephine is quick to
state,
"The very fact that I survived my suicide attempt (and just so you
know, it was not intentional.... chemically based. I had no clue at the
time) is the #1 reason why I stay motivated. I thank God every day for
my 2nd chance, and I strive to not take anything for granted anymore"
Though tragedy has the potential to break a person, it also holds within
it the seeds of change. So it was that Josephine emerged from her own
tragedy with an renewed appreciation of life
"To this very day, I can only thank God for his miraculous
intervention and allowing me a second chance at life"
Josephine Dalton
Within two weeks of her
recovery, Josephine found the inner strength to walk away from an
abusive relationship. Though both her nose and ankle had been broken in
the exchange, her spirit was strangely renewed as she became awakened to
the potential that lie within her. She was determined to regain her self
esteem, she was determined to rebuild her life, and nothing, not even
the lingering pain in her own body was going to stop her.
"2 months later (after an intense diet & exercise program that did
not include cardio), I competed in Clark Bartram's very first show, the
2006 Golden State Championships (FAME at the time) and hobbled away with
the Female Fitness Model Champion title. Granted, I was not in the best
shape of my life or of the other competitors, but one thing is for sure,
I was more happy to have been alive to make it there than to have won in
the end."
Josephine continues to train,
compete, model and inspire others. Though she claims to be too flawed to
be anyone's role model, she does state
"everyone and anyone can identify with me in terms of overcoming
one's own obstacles, hitting rock bottom then skyrocketing back up,
embracing self love and a healthy & realistic relationship with one's
health" Josephine Dalton
Personal
note:
If you
are involved in an abusive relationship, don't wait for the
other person to change, do what Josephine Dalton did and get
out now. Many communities have shelters that can offer
advice and assistance that can get you back on the path to
independence. Never stop believing in yourself!